People treat you as your job.?

I just turned 17 the other day and i had aloooot of fun. my sister is 29 and when we went out she saw her co-worker and like the lady was distant and non talkative and treated her like she was less. I thought something was seriously wrong with her, but my sis told me that's the head boss of the company.....all i could say was....ok? looking at the time she wasn't at work. So why do people treat eachother like crap if their beneath them at their job. it's like dude, after working hours your nothing to my sister. She has her own life as so does the 'boss'. it's a role you play at work right? when i grow up(almost grown:) ) I want to stay in the music business and work for myself. I can't deal with people like that who belittle other peoples lives just because their paycheck is a little better. my sister is a great person, i think everybody is, but why do people do that to themselves. in people in lower rank or whatever feel inferior like everybody doesn't crap in the same toilet at worksomething that comes out of peoples mouths are always....'what do you do?' ike that really tells something about the person. you never know who you're talking to...before jim carry was a millionair he slept in a car. im sure people wouldn't ask him now, infact he can ask those same people the same exact question. you never know who people are or will become in life. treat everybody with respect because their job doesn't show who they are.

People treat you as your job.?
If it were only that easy. Many people in a management positions are trained how to manipulate people into believing they are not worthy of a raise or respect. Many people believe they have higher attendance rates and better job performances when they treat people like that. That only works on people who are lacking self esteem of sorts. It usually keeps some people believing that they have no right to ask for a raise because they feel they are always not doing a good enough job to satisfy the boss. I have always been a very hard worker, but have a hard time giving my all for people who try to use that strategy on me. You are right, there is no excuse to treat people different because of their job title of wages. As you will see, which I believe you have already, that goes on at almost every single place of employment.
Reply:My first bit of advice is "Get used to it." The second is "Ignore it." Know it is going to happen, but don't let this attitude of others drag you down. I met a man working in a vineyard along with what I thought were the rest of the day workers tying the vines to the supports. He politely answered my questions and went back to what he was doing. The next time I was there, I met him again, same type of apparel, jeans and flannel shirt, but sitting behind his desk as president of the wine company.





Remember that to some people money and prestige are all that matter. Learn to avoid these people as much as possible. Find people to whom what you are matters more than what your bank account is.





I participate in a team sport that has to be one of the world's most egalitarian activities, claybird shooting in several varieties. Every shooter is equal, whether just being 12 years of age, or, as our club icon did, just turning 91 last weekend. We have laborers, retirees, schoolchildren, teachers, business owners, politicians, policemen and policewomen and more and all are treated the same. My favorite memory of this was a day when I was shooting with a doctor, a cardiac surgeon, who was used to having everything just as he wanted it, and in the operating room, it should be. Let's just say he was being a pain on the skeet field.


The quote from the referee was one that will live forever in my memory:


"I don't care whether you are God or just think you are, the rules apply to you the same as to anyone else."





More people should be told that.
Reply:I agree with you but at 17 you are seeing the world very idealistically. You will find out soon enough there will always be people who think they are better than others because of their job position or money. I'm not saying it is right but unfortunately it is very common.
Reply:It sucks that its like that.
Reply:I agree with you - the treatment your sister received from her boss was extremely rude. But it's not always that way. I work for a small company, and the owner of the company has always treated me as though I was a member of the family (very close, and very, very thoughtful to me). Perhaps it's time your sister begins looking for somewhere where she can be appreciated for everything that she is - not treated according to her "position" in the company.
Reply:You are very right

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